Life can be much simpler...

I recently had the distinct privilege of participating in before-bed story time with some friends and their children. In addition to just observing how dynamic the children are, I was struck by an interesting notion. Authors of self-help books sell millions of copies of their books to adults. In many cases, you will find that after buying and reading these books, chances are that you already had the answer to your question or knew what path of enlightenment you should take. But, for some reason, it's still comforting to hear it from someone else.

This particular children's book was giving the rundown on what to do when you face obstacles. For example, if someone is being unfair or mean to you, you don't have to return the favor and you're not required to play with them. Instead, you can find your own happiness and play by yourself with the toys you like and have a great time.

This example illustrates a simple notion that becomes lost in the adult world. Adults encounter obstacles practically everyday. And adults like to make things complicated sometimes. I admit that I am guilty of this. When faced with an obstacle, it would be so much simpler to just walk away and find an alternate solution or find others who are willing to play nicely. However, the good in me wants to work with the mean kids to find a resolution. Although, their goal is to keep things unresolved. Meanwhile, the human part of me wants to tell them where they can go with their issue and their unresolved resolution, and in not-so-nice terms.

As adults, we know that there are an infinite number of obstacles in the world. Yet I encourage you to take a page from this book (pun intended) and utilize some of those developmental principles in your adult life. Things don't have to be so complex all the time.

Colors are fun. Do what makes you happy. Treat yourself and others well. Find things that bring you inner and outer peace. And take turns on the swings.

~S